A woman enjoying the benefits of journalling

Journalling

Read on to understand how to get the most out of journalling, and understand how it can benefit you and your emotional wellbeing.

How to Journal

Think it's obvious? Think again...

Journalling isn’t about writing beautifully or every day, it’s about slowing down enough to listen to yourself. It’s a space to notice what’s really going on beneath the surface, to connect dots, notice patterns and triggers, and to meet your own thoughts and feelings with honesty and compassion.

Here are some ways to get the most from it:

1. Start with what’s present

Begin with whatever is most alive for you in the moment... what you’re feeling, thinking about, or struggling with. You might start with a simple phrase: “Right now, I feel…” or “What’s been on my mind today is…”

2. Don’t censor yourself

Try to let your words flow without worrying about grammar, neatness, or logic. Journalling works best when it’s real, not polished. If your thoughts feel messy, that’s okay, it means you’re being honest.

3. Ask gentle questions

Use prompts that invite curiosity rather than judgment (Jo will be providing journalling prompts in every newsletter). Try:

  • What might my anxiety be trying to tell me?

  • What do I need right now that I’m not giving myself?

  • If I could speak freely, what would I say?

4. Reflect, don’t ruminate

The goal isn’t to spiral deeper into problems, but to notice patterns and emotions with awareness. When you read back what you’ve written, ask yourself: What stands out? What do I learn about myself here?

5. End with care

Close each entry with something nurturing, and compassionate - a word of reassurance, a statement of intent, or a reminder of strength. For example:
“I’m learning to understand myself better.”
“It’s okay that I don’t have all the answers yet.”

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Remember: Journalling isn’t a task to perfect, it’s a relationship you build with yourself.

The Benefits of Journalling

Support your emotional wellbeing

Journalling is one of the simplest yet most effective tools for emotional awareness and regulation. It helps bridge the gap between your inner world and conscious understanding, allowing emotions to move through you rather than stay stuck.

Here are some of the ways journalling can support your wellbeing:

1. Emotional clarity

Writing helps you make sense of thoughts that feel tangled or overwhelming. Seeing your feelings on paper can help you name them, and once named, emotions often feel more manageable.

2. Stress reduction

By expressing what’s on your mind, you offload the mental noise that contributes to anxiety, tension, or racing thoughts. This can calm the nervous system and restore a sense of balance.

3. Self-awareness

Regular journalling builds awareness of patterns, what triggers you, what soothes you, and what you need. This awareness is a key step in personal growth and emotional mastery.

4. Self-compassion

When you write freely, you often uncover parts of yourself that are hurting or afraid. Meeting those parts on the page with understanding, rather than criticism, helps to build kindness toward yourself.

5. Perspective and resilience

Looking back on past entries can remind you of how much you’ve learned or overcome. It shows that emotions pass, that change is possible, and that you’re capable of adapting and growing.

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In therapy and beyond, journalling offers a space for reflection, emotional release, and growth. It's a small, consistent practice that can make a significant difference to how you understand and care for yourself.

Testimonials

Here's what others have gained from Jo's Therapy Hub resources...

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Sarah

"Jo’s insights on anxiety and boundaries have changed my perspective. I now understand more about my behaviours and feel more able to use self-talk and self-care practices to help regulate my emotions!"

Aisha

"I had been feeling a bit out of sorts with some anxiety about seeing friends, but working through some of these resources has helped me understand why. Being guided in my self-reflection has been valuable, and has helped me look after myself better."

Gill

"I found the tracker really helped me to identify patterns in my anxiety and links between my emotions and physical sensations. Taking the time at the end of each day to complete the tracker made me more self-aware and the process of sitting with my anxiety became more comfortable with practice. The weekly summary allowed me space to reflect which isn't something I'd normally do so it felt positive for me to invest time in myself."

Resources

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Your Anxiety Tracker Journal

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Understanding Anxiety

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Learn why anxiety happens, how it affects your thoughts, body, and actions, and what keeps the anxiety cycle going. This short, insightful guide explores common triggers and the impact of anxiety on daily life, helping you gain a deeper understanding. By accessing this free resource, you’ll also receive The Friday Pause, my fortnightly reflections and wellbeing insights. You can unsubscribe any time.

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Break free from people-pleasing: A step-by-step guide (eBook)

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People-pleasing is often rooted in a need for approval and fear of rejection. This step-by-step guide will help show you exactly how to stop people-pleasing, build confidence, and start prioritising yourself, without feeling selfish or guilty. By purchasing this resource, you’ll also receive The Friday Pause, my fortnightly reflections and wellbeing insights. You can unsubscribe any time.